How to Lead Authentically Without Copying Others
In 2016, Spotify launched “Wrapped.” Every December, users get a colorful, animated review of their year in music and podcasts. I’m not a superuser, but I always look forward to seeing my preferences all “Wrapped” up. (Did you see what I did there?) This year, I got Wrapped-like emails from Starbucks (22 stores in 21 cities) and the Washington Post (apparently, I’m a “Trailblazer—curious, practical, confident”), among others. While fun, these attempts felt like they were trying too hard—and honestly, off-brand. It’s true that imitation is the sincerest form of flattery, but when it comes to leadership, copying someone else’s traits or behaviors can erode your authenticity if not done with care and intentionality. So, where does that leave you when you see leadership qualities you admire but don’t know how to integrate? PACE yourself. Here’s a framework to help you grow while staying true to your unique leadership style: Here’s how it looks in action: James (not his real name) admired Sam’s (also not her real name) gregariousness and natural stage presence. A low-key guy by nature, James felt drawn to Sam’s ability to draw people out (Pause). He also realized that engaging with others more effectively could strengthen relationships with his team and colleagues (Align). To grow, James committed to speaking up more intentionally in meetings and scheduling short networking conversations to boost his visibility (Commit). Over time, he adjusted these actions to feel more authentic and aligned with his personality (Embody). Authentic leadership isn’t about being louder or flashier—it’s about showing up as the truest version of yourself and inspiring others to do the same, enabling you to build trust and create impact along the way. So, as you think about the leadership playlist you’re building for the year, ask yourself: If you’re leveling up this year, curate your own leadership playlist. It’ll be more effective—and fulfilling—than playing someone else’s. What’s the first step you’re committing to today?